Why Mercy Johnson’s marriage didn’t hold

Mercy Johnson

She is one of the ingenious innards in the Nollywwod, the theatrical and delectable damsel from Kogi State. Mercy Johnson reportedly sounded very angry recently. Her anger spanned across the peddled gossip that one Emeka Duru who happened to be the Production Manager in a film she acted in, titled, “The Maid”, was going everywhere selling her integrity that he was the first to give her the first job – “The Maid”. But vigorously, she denied him, saying that he didn’t give her the first job and had not given her any before. Mercy distanced Duru, saying that he wasn’t the owner of “The Maid” and didn’t own “The Maid” and had no decision in the crew that chosed who acted in the movie and not. “The Made”, she said, was Kenneth Nnebue’s film, a film that not less than 480 girls participated in the audition.

Like many people who are intensely fearful of poverty, this Nollywood ingénue said that she loves money so much, because she likes and wants to be comfortable. But, she has a strong different view about money in a relationship. To her, true love should come first in a relationship. But, she swiftly reiterated that relationship should not be all about dating.

It is a known issue today that many Nigerian girls, but most especially, Nollywood actresses see dating as one of those world’s enterprise. To them, it is no finance, no romance. But, Mercy though had agreed that dating should not be everything, but money shouldn’t of course be the basis of everything. Sounding clerically like a maddened Pentecostal clergy, she admonished that it is time people began to appreciate their dates: by valuing the ‘person’ in their partners, their charisma, innate qualities and allow their spirits to accept the person first, and should stop concluding first with their imaginations.

What many interviewees had shied away from, Mercy Johnson did not. She revealed how she met her fiancé: Odi. She said that it was at a salon; he came to wait for her at the salon he was intimated that she usually goes to. She said that Odi is not the first who had made advances to her; she had received more than enough text messages on her cell phone from men. Buttressing her point, one of the text messages reads: “Oh! I just had a dream and Jesus Christ said you are my wife”.

She confessed that as a celeb, it’s very difficult to pick a partner when admirers send such text message, but she has find solace in Odi. She said that her fiancé never told her that he saw “Jesus” that moved him to her, but she likened everything that has brought them together to God.

This is coming from Mercy Johnson now that many Nollywood actresses allow make-belief things run into their heads instead of allowing the reality. Many of the actresses are sacrificing love on the altar for money and hardly fall in love. Mercy is not comfortable with that belief, because out there, she said; there are a host of lovers out to showcase their loves. She lengthened her point, saying that she came to realise that everyone has a lover one day that she was driving and saw a blind woman that’s pregnant; what she saw convinced her that there is true love. It is not easy for any successful person to tell the world the source of his or her power, but Mercy did. Mercy said that the Baba who does her “Juju” in Nollywood will never fail her and fade. She confessed that the Baba will always be with her for as far as she lives and that she is not going anywhere.

Hear her: “Yes o! (I use Juju). There is Baba somewhere. The only Baba that me, I know, is up there and you know he says when He begins to bless somebody people will begin to ask what is happening. My Baba’s own (Juju) will not fade o!”

The lovely Mercy loves her Odi more than words could possibly say, but not that she goes around telling peple about him, she said, she only mentions him when she wants to prove a point in a discourse about relationship. Mercy that has grown thick skin about people’s allegation that she sleeps with men in the Nollywood to get roles, said that she now wore this skin because her fiancé is not complaining; the unbridled mouths could have caused her nervesquake if her Odi is complaining; but since he has blinded his eyes, people don’t bother her anymore. On a thought, Mercy said that if people are saying that she’s sleeping with all the big boys in the Nollywood to get roles that, is she as well sleeping with all her fans to buy her films?  Though, she didn’t deny the fact that she gets scripts a lot, but disagreed that she is the ‘number one’ in the Nollywood, because she hadn’t got to where she’s walking to.

Against that backdrop, since she is still ‘walking’, an observer was keen to understand if she has walked out of her purported marriage as was awash on media, and, she said: “Nobody walked away. I heard about the August 17th gist and the August 27th gist and it’s funny. I know that I mentioned that I am engaged, but I didn’t give a date.”

Odimegwu Onwumere, Poet/Author and Media Consultant, is the Founder of Poet Against Child Abuse (PACA), Rivers State, Nigeria

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Comments

Hi Mercy J don’t mind the saying of the people. You know this world what ever you do people must talk about you.

Ebere says:

M.j. I have been making positive comments anyway i see your name on the net gossip. You act like remote. Keep moving/responding to any signal around you when in action. You know exactly how we want it and you supply it to us the way we needed it. Alway danceing to the tune of our music. Jesus said noone is perfect, but may he give me to say,you M.j is looking,sounding and seems perfect.Thank you. Lots of love, xxx.

Amos says:

Mercy just believe on urself and forget what others believe kip the light bright lv u

Mercy,you are such a sensational star that’s tickle my mind when ever i watched your movies(Movies you took part in),the very first time i watched your action in the movie SHAKIRA,i imediately fall in LOVE for you.You are perfect,don’t listen to detractors keep it up MERCY God will reward you….

M J , i salute you and i admire you and your worth , don’t be disburbed

hi mercy,i reaaly love ur movies they are the best. i buy them becoz you are an all-rounder who plays all her roles very well. plse do not care about what people are saying ok if you are not born in to this world people will not gossip or say bad things about you…… go girl

ANN AKPE says:

HI MERCY JOHN,I WANT TO WEN EXACTLY IS UR MARRIAGE IS COMING UP.

Akpos sandra kes says:

I love ur way mercy xpecially in d heart of a fighter.gosh i love u just d way u re!

justina says:

hi, girl keep on striving, don’t mind people’s mouth it will not remove anything from u, just wish u a happy marrried life. i love ur movies, ur courage and boldness entiles me alot.just pray to God and he will solve ur problems.

maureen says:

u hv 2 understd one th in life dat who god has bless no man can course, u r a real star

Queen says:

Mercy johnson is d best among all. Love u n wish 2 c u mercy.

i like mercy johnson, she is the only pretty serious actress in nollywood and who knows what she is doing. mercy really as her fan she likes her job she knows that she working. i like her style she really beautfill. mercy i love you and i like yo movies gal i normally buy yo movies because u know how to play. keep on dear god bless you alot.

NB.

BELIEVE YES OR NOT YOUR A CEREB YOUR KNOWN ALL OVER THE WORLD DOT CARE ABOUT THE WORDS, PEOPLE THEY TALK WHATEVER THEY WANT THANK GOD BECAUSE THEIR TALKING WHICH THAT THEIR SELLING YOUR NAME. LIKE ME WHEREVER AM COMING FROM IT IS FAR BUT I KNOW YOU AS MERCY JOHNSON AS ACTRESS IN NIGERIA I LOVE YOU YOUR MY FAVOURATE. SHALOM

Chioma says:

I lv u mercy

Hannah Row says:

helo dearie! U re gud n i luv ur style, do ur tin as u wish dnt mind wat pple say,.ofcouse u knw dey mst talk so only luk up 2 God cos he is d author n d finisher of ur faith luv u.

joy says:

baby i luv and care about u so keep it up.

suzzysexy says:

babym,the way u dress,ur acting and to the best of it ur intonations is always driving me in sane dat i can,t wait 2 see u face to face.i love u

Hylda says:

Who said the beautiful ones r yet not born? Go mercy, God wil continuen to bless u, i luv everythng abt u, i wish u wel in life. Am speechlez.

precious says:

my girl u are a model, don’t mind people in any thing they may say, dey saying becos God give dem mouth to talk, do what ever u mind and u spirit tell u to do cos u cannot please everybody. I like dat animal skin party gw u won on white hunters keep it up i love u style

Chioma says:

baby,i love u so much.dont mind those people that are condeming u ok,their only being jelous

Daniel says:

Baby,you’ve proof beyond reasonable though that you are a star in what you do and I also salute your courage and strong believe in your man; this is quite emulating so keep up the good job and shune bissy body.

Kendis says:

Aunty mercy i just want u 2 knw dat u d best .wish being like u in future

mercy says:

i like the way u act,u’re a international actress.

chigirl says:

Dont mind busy bodies.you are talented

HELLO MERCY MY NAME IS SHUNNEL I AM, FROM GUYANA I DO LOVE YOUR ACTING VERY MUCH KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.