Sex tourism in Senegal – Colonialism of the most intimate and worst kind?

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Many Europeans come to Senegal for sex. They do it because West Africa is poor, anonymous and convenient. Fancy resorts, with their attendant communities of tourists, are few and far between here. The country’s grittiness keeps away the judgmental gaze of Western visitors. In coastal cities like Mbour and Ziguinchor, male prostitution is common. I have observed as older white European women embrace young, athletic Senegalese men for company, and I presume, for sex. In Mbour, I’ve seen the men exercise on the beach, flexing muscles: auditioning. They later approach female tourists, who take their pick. Some men, after their workouts, have traipsed up to me as I’m reclining on the sand, hoping I might be interested. Perhaps it’s clear after I respond to them in a local language that I’m not a tourist with money to spend.

Inland, where I live, female sex work is more common. The main hotel in Kolda, a leafy oasis with a pool, a sports bar, a restaurant, and wireless internet, is the hang-out for European men and their Senegalese “girlfriends.” These men spend their days in the bush outside Kolda somewhere, being driven around in 4WDs, walking through the forest in their camouflage-print outfits, shooting at game. On days when I use the internet at the hotel, I see them arrive in the evening with their Senegalese guides trailing them in matching camo gear dragging their furry catch. If these men wanted to hunt, they would have headed to East or Southern Africa. Here they settle for warthogs, squirrels and pigeons.

By night, the Europeans sit at long dinner tables by the pool, each of their arms slung around young Senegalese women. It’s like they are all on a singles retreat or at a swingers’ party. Everyone canoodles with everyone else. There seems to be a lot of pretending going on. The Senegalese women pretend to be girlfriends, spending time with the men, talking, laughing and sleeping with them. While I’ve never seen money change hands, the monetized nature of these relationships is something everyone talks about. A woman my age who I teach English to after her shifts as the hotel hostess says she’s embarrassed to sometimes be confused with the other young women who hang out there as prostitutes.

Perhaps there are deeper romantic connections I’m unaware of between the European men and their Senegalese paramours, but given the attractiveness of these women, I doubt that overweight, middle-aged men from the South of France would be their ideal mates if it weren’t for the monetary and immigration issues at play.

Some say that this is a harmless win-win for everyone. Senegal’s HIV/AIDS rate, at 1%, is one of the lowest in Africa. Locals I talk to about it seem ambivalent: they seem quietly disgusted by sex tourism, but then shrug it off, unable to come up with a more viable financial alternative. There is also the argument, propounded by some economists, that African women who choose to engage in sex work are making an extremely rational economic decision, one that could improve their lives in real ways.

All that aside, I still can’t help but be sickened by the obvious power differential between an affluent Westerner making a kept woman or a kept man out of a Senegalese local. I have a visceral reaction to this form of inequality. Sex tourism, with its explicit racial components, seems like colonialism of the most intimate and worst kind.

 

 

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Comments
Emmanuel says:

Justin, the point Maya made is that the women whom the sex is done aren’t Caucasians and that the entire relationship itself is built on power. Whether or not the author wrote this article from a feminist perspective is not the point. Rather, her entire thrust is that sexual colonialism is playing within the larger context of neo-colonialism and economic exploitation. If and when you reached retirement age and are wealthy, I suggest you express your sexuality in Europe or wherever you’re in the Caucasian world. But do it from a position of equality and respect for the women you’re gonna involved with, and not the sort of thing going on in Senegal’s sex tourism spots and those elsewhere in Africa and the developing world.

Justin says:

I really cannot stand the implications of these feminist articles that only women have a right to get to have sex just because they are the only attractive ones. I’m 30 and haven’t had a date in 4 years. MOST males I know 25-35 haven’t managed a date, let alone sex, in 5 up to 10 years. This is the price we must pay for being male, meanwhile girls our age and below get to have all the sex they want without any effort more than choosing who they’ll allow to do it to them.

So you mean to tell me when I finally am old enough to have the survival value (wealth and status) to attract a female that I am somehow immoral for finally taking what I have coming because I’m not young and good looking when I finally achieve that level of living at age 50 or later???